The Docs & Resources post is an imposing wall of text, but it’s worth looking through just so that when you’re struggling with something, it can ring a bell that something about that was one of the zillion things linked to.
I went through ALL the responses in Standard Rules. (The ones I didn’t change have comments. I catalogued them using RESPONSES 1, and inlcuded the then-current defaults in comments.)
This is a good catalog of responses you may want to change. The extension itself gets rid of the most “opinionated” responses from Core Inform, but I think it’s also useful as a template for figuring out where you want to put in your own opinionated responses. It also points out which ones are tricky and finicky (they needed extra coding).
In fact I wrote that extension largely as the baseline for another – still incomplete – extension, Compliant Characters, which exists solely to give parser error responses to commands like “John, take hat” when there is no hat available. I’m going to finish that one someday…
Oh, wow, thanks for sharing this! It’s a lot to work through (which I imagine is to be expected), but this should be a huge help in working out how to give my games a less default vibe.