i just cant figure out how to make them interact with you
I suspect the reason you haven’t had a reply to this yet is that your question is so broad and general.
If you haven’t already done so you should read Chapter 5 of Getting Started in TADS 3 and/or the articles on Creating Dynamic Actors in the TADS 3 Technical Manual and/or Chapter 14 in Learning TADS 3. Between them these three sources give a pretty comprehensive overview of how to create responsive actors in TADS 3.
If you are having a specific problem creating actors, you really need to give details of what your problem is before anyone can help you with it.